Watch Command

Free · printable · for supervisors and command

Ask why they stay before they tell you why they left.

An exit interview tells you what already went wrong. A stay interview is a 20-minute conversation with someone you want to keep, asked while there's still time to act. Focus on years two through five, the group most likely to leave.

Watch Command · stay interview

Ten questions, twenty minutes

Set it up right: "I'm not evaluating you. I want to keep you, and I'd rather ask now than find out in a resignation letter." Then listen more than you talk. Don't defend anything. Write down their words.

  1. What do you look forward to on a good shift?
  2. What's the worst part of the job that isn't the calls?
  3. When was the last time you thought about leaving? What was going on?
  4. What would a recruiter from another agency have to offer to get you to go?
  5. What's one thing I do as your supervisor that makes this harder?
  6. What's one thing I could start doing that would make it better?
  7. Do you feel like you're getting better at this job? Who's helping you?
  8. Where do you want to be in three years? Does anyone here know that?
  9. How's the job treating things at home?
  10. What should I have asked that I didn't?
Within one week: follow up on one thing they said, even if the answer is "I can't fix that, and here's why." The follow-up is what makes the next stay interview honest.